I just talked to my mom on the phone and she told me that my paternal Grandfather passed away this morning. If I’m not mistaken, he was 97 years old. His wife, my paternal Grandmother, died about 6 years ago and his health had been declining progressively ever since. He was my last living grandparent. He was a pretty good man. He worked hard, running the family farm and cherry orchard for many years and was also a school principal. My family often talked about how he was very close to finishing his PhD at Utah State University but never did. He was clearly intelligent and spent much of his retirement doing genealogical work and writing family histories. I must have 10 to 15 thick volumes filled with letters and stories from the Cragun side, all of which he compiled and/or wrote.
I think my favorite memory of him comes from when I was a teenager. When we would visit him he used to pinch our legs when we weren’t expecting it. He didn’t tickle, he pinched. Sometimes it really hurt, but it was usually just the surprise of it. It was something of a game for him to see if he could catch us off guard and sneak in a pinch. He had a great smile he’d follow it up with when he snuck one in successfully.
We used to make about a monthly trek out to their house (about a 45 minute drive from where I grew up). We always went on a sunday and spent a good five or six hours there. Sometimes it was boring, but we were pretty resourceful and found things to do. For instance, there were two guest bedrooms in the basement along with a laundry room and a very large, multi-purpose room that also housed the furnace. In the multi-purpose room was a hollow bench where they stored a bunch of old clothes that were kept specifically for the grandkids to use for dress up. My younger siblings and I regularly put on plays for the rest of the family using those clothes. We also devised a number of odd, ever-changing games to play in that basement multi-purpose room (e.g., throw the ball at someone or something, etc.).
The house also had a very large, well-manicured yard. When my older siblings were still in the picture (hadn’t moved out yet), we’d usually start the evening off with a game of football or baseball or sometimes even soccer. We also used that lawn during some Easter celebrations for a hard-boiled egg slide. They’d spray down the lawn with water and see who could slide their peeled, hard-boiled egg down the hill the farthest.
My grandpa took great pride in his lawn, probably because his house is the first one you see when you drive up the main road into Pleasant View. His yard was always filled with an amazing variety of plants and flowers and he dutifully managed them all until he was no longer healthy enough to do so. He also put up elaborate light displays (along with a nativity) during the Christmas season every year, though that also lapsed when his health declined.
Another couple things I remember in the house are kind of fun. My grandpa had a den or office right in the center of the house that actually had windows looking into the main living room (probably the result of an addition to the original house). The den was one of my favorite places to hang out because it had a lot of old, cool things in it. One of the most unique was a massaging chair that must have been 20 years old when I was born. I remember it being ancient but still working and we regularly sat in it.
The house also had a front room that was pretty formal and seldom used for hosting or even sitting. I remember it being color-coordinated and having the carpet that had parts shaved and other parts shag, so you could always find strange patterns in it. Anyway, in the room, from when I could remember, they had a globe with fiber-optic lights sticking out of it. I don’t know the history of fiber-optics… okay, I just looked it up, anyway, the globe must have been an “early adopter” purchase because I didn’t see one anywhere else for a long, long time. I thought it was cool. Also, I used to sit on the dining room chairs, which rotate like an office chair, and spin around looking at the ceiling until I was dizzy. As the ceiling was one of those that had the glittery spray on it, it made for pretty cool dizzy spells - it was like looking at glittery stars on a white background instead of a black one.
Anyway, those are some of my memories of my grandfather. Like I said, he was a pretty good guy. I think he was a bit patriarchal by today’s standards, but probably not by his day’s standards, so he can’t really be faulted for that. But he was good-spirited and a hard worker and instilled those values in his children, which led to me inheriting the hard-work meme as well. So, to Earl Budge Cragun, my last grandparent - 1/24/1909-5/6/2006.